Showing posts with label cougar. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cougar. Show all posts

Monday, April 30, 2012

What Makes Me a Cougar Woman?

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You have probably heard the term cougar woman a lot in the media, but have you ever wondered what makes a woman a cougar? Well, the first thing to know is that cougar is not a derogatory word. Women who are referred to as cougars are named after the wild cat and I like to call myself a cougar woman because I believe I exhibit some of the cats strengths, such as power, beauty and success. Cougar women know what they want and aren’t afraid to go out and get it. Here is a checklist of what I feel makes a woman a cougar (and what makes me a cougar)– hey you could be one yourself!
1. A cougar woman is over 35 years old.
2. A cougar woman is attracted to younger men. These men (or cubs) are usually 10 years or more younger and exhibit qualities such as good looks and a fun and exciting personality.
3. Cougar women are predatory in their flirting techniques. They are not worried about approaching men and are great flirts. They enjoy male attention and know what to do to get it.
4. Cougar women take care of themselves. They value their looks and do what is necessary to maintain them. For some this means regular gym workouts or pilates classes. Others may spend money on nice clothes, make up and expensive hair styles. For some cougars plastic surgery is the answer and they may invest in a breast augmentation or a lift here or there (although I haven't had to go that far...yet)
5. Cougar women exude confidence. This shines through in the way they walk, talk, flirt and generally enjoy life.
6. Cougar women are often successful in work and life. They are usually quite well off and enjoy treating their younger dates. These women are a joy to be around as they tend to be so much less stressful than younger girls, who can be insecure in their looks and life path.
So what makes me a cougar woman? Well, a combination of some of the qualities listed above. You can see why so many young men are falling over themselves to date one us. Whether it be a casual fling (Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer), or serious relationship (think when Ashton Kutcher was married to Demi Moore) cougar relationships are a whole lot of fun.

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Sunday, April 29, 2012

I admit it...I am a cougar woman!

Oh hello there! 

It has been quite some time since I have been part of the dating scene and I have been told by various relatives and friends that I should go for someone my own age, but really...I want a bit of fun! So what I am 52 and should probably be knitting for my grandchildren. That is not the real me! I want to travel, to eat at fine restaurants, to dance! That is why I am looking for casual relationships with younger men. I think they will be less likely to want serious commitment and far less likely to make demands on me. I am old enough now to know what I want in life. I have had my serious relationship and now that is well and truly over I want something totally different.

I have always taken good care of myself; going to the gym, getting my hair and nails done and recently I have got into zumba ( which is great for creating fabulous curves). I enjoy being around younger people and they seem to enjoy being around me. I am not looking for a man to take care of me - I can do that myself. I am financially stable and if I want to date younger men - I guess that makes me a cougar woman! I'm not afraid to say it - in fact I think it is time to embrace it.

So this blog is here to follow my journey as I plunder through the world of bars and online dating sites. Hopefully you will learn from some of my mistakes and get some useful tips to either date a cougar woman or a younger guy.

Love Diane x